"IT IS BETTER TO MARRY SECOND WIFE THAN CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE"

Many were raised in a very damaged environment and grow up with mindset that it's not possible to have a marriage that is one husband and one wife without side chick or children outside .

Most of the experience they have in their church is that , 

Almost all their elders have 3 or more wives 

Those that have one wife , cheats or have secret children outside .

So, it's impossible to see that it's possible to live pure , stay faithful with a woman for life .

Many had been damaged by experience with several women that they believe until you have up to five women in your house before you can be balanced in life. 

Let me say this ,

We don't shame those who married more than two wives . We are not abusing them .

We are not saying that they don't have issues.

I understand issues drive many to marry two or more wives . Everyone have a story behind what they do. Very touching story .

I write to singles and younger generations to keep to the pattern that God gave in the beginning which is one husband and one wife .

If you want to marry ten(10) wives , it's your choice go ahead.

Ask many who married more than one wife , they don't plan it , and many of them are not happy with the situation.

If that's what you're so loud about 

So loud about polygamy 

But quiet about possibility of 

Having one husband and one wife 

Without any secret affair or children outside 

Then you have a big problem 

It's environmental problem 

You need to change your environment 

Find time to sit with your father , uncle , pastor who married more than one wife , let them share their pains with you and I am sure they won't advise you to marry more than one wife .

Why can't you use your time to advocate for marriage of one husband and one wife instead of looking for bible verse to support polygamy? 

And for those who will comment , let's just preach Jesus , just preach salvation 

This is Jesus , this is the gospel .

Jesus is coming for His wife , the church 

The church is the only wife of Jesus. 

Jesus didn't have many wives 

Group of believers is called Church 

So Jesus is coming for one church , one wife .

Be like Jesus 

Not like Solomon or David

Focus on Jesus Christ 

That's the gospel.

IMOLEDAYO.