Plan your wedding according to your capacity not according to people expectation. Don't go and borrow money or take loan to do wedding. Manage the money you have and do the wedding withing your own capacity and ability with the help of God .
A brother in C & S church will want to marry in same fold and be blessed in C & S church yet looking for suit to sow to wear inside the church? why can't he sow white garment and be blessed in garment robe before the Lord?
Please Note, Church wedding is not compulsory. It's a choice. The most important wedding is Traditional wedding where you pay the bride price . That's the main thing in wedding, all others is ceremony.
Many of us just follow the crowd to do things , we don't follow pattern and the leading of the spirit of God. You want to be like others , do your wedding like others , look like others and you enter into wrong competition and put pressure on each other over unnessary things !
Some of you are single till date not because you don't know who you will marry but you're waiting to have enough money to do a very loud wedding that your friends on Instagram and Twitter will know that a wedding is going on in town. who does that help? must you invite thosand of people to your wedding ? don't you know you can invite just 10 people and you will have a glorious wedding?
I have seen someone married for the past 3 years still paying up wedding debt! you rent hall of over 450k , you buy wedding cloth of 250k , suit of 150k instead of sowing good white garment that won't cost you up to 20k and look good . Must you imitate others? must you look like others? you have been wearing white garment all these days and on your wedding day in white garment church, you're looking for suit to wear , looking for a designer wedding cloth that after wedding day you can never wear it again, who affect our understanding? who fool us ? why are we thinking backward ?
if you are so weathy that you make at least a million naira in a month , then it's fine to kill ten cow , buy 50m suit or 100m wedding gown. But you know in a month you struggle to make 50k yet you planing for a wedding of 500million naira , and you're thinking you have family member that will support you because wedding is once in a life time.
If someone gave you 50million to do wedding and you only earn like 50k in a month, why not use the money to start a business or invest the money to make more money than spend it on wedding so people will say you did a big wedding.
No matter how much you spend on your wedding day, some people will still say they didn't eat or meat is not enough even if you kill 10 cow. so why kill your self? must you invite everybody? see, even if you buy wedding cloth of over 300k , some people will still say, the cloth doesn't fit you or it's not fine. so why not sow a white garment that you can even wear after wedding ? And you brothers too, sow white garment not suit! You can get a suit for court wedding but not necessarily expensive ones except you have enough money or someone dash you.
Plan more for Marriage than for wedding
Wedding ends a day, marriage is life after wedding. Don't be couples who begin their marriage with fights over loans and money borrowed for wedding. May God give you wisdom .
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