One of the reasons many don't celebrate their father is because they have father's that don't take care of their responsibility!
Mother's will take loan, join thrift, borrow money just to pay house bills , pay school fees yet the father will be there , feel unconcerned. Many believe that their wife will go around and struggle to get the bills paid .
How can the children celebrate such men ? It's not as if they don't have money or they have no job, but they spend outside and neglect their responsibility at home . They buy pepper soup for girlfriends and do father Christmas for strangers , the man is good outside but will act poor at home and say do you want me to go and rob the bank ?
It's time for men to stand up to their responsibility! Don't neglect your responsibility. Too many women are tired . Women carry a whole lot of burden , a whole lot of bills , yet the man is not dead but it's like the wife is already a widow!
The wife will be the one to look for house rent, pay light bills, school fees , look for money to buy food in the house , the husband will come home to eat. It's not as if you don't have a job, but you choose to spend on girlfriends than to spend on your children.
I write this letter to men , to fathers and husband. Be responsible at home . Take care of your woman , your children. Your wife is tired . She's weak. She's frustrated. She is not happy. Support her. Help her . Be responsible!
Many Fathers were only celebrated on Father's day not because they deserved it but because THEY HOPE THERE WILL BE CHANGE . They celebrate you because they still have hope in you. Love them . Be responsible.
It's very difficult for woman to submit to irresponsible husband. It's very difficult. If you're not caring , you neglect your responsibility, how do you want a woman to submit to such kind of man ?
Take the mantle of leadership back in your house. Don't allow your wife be the only one to think about how to pay bills. How to borrow money. You're not dead , you're alive. Don't allow her to see you as a dead husband or father , be active . Be responsible.
If you have no job, look for job. Work hard and work smart. Know you have a family to take care of and you have responsibility and the Lord will help you.
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